There are no hard and fast rules so far as wedding attire is concerned. The outfitting of your wedding should be determined by your personal preferences, taking into consideration your budget.
Here is a short explanation of the traditional styles of formal wear:
Wardrobe for a wedding should be determined by the time of day and level of formality of the reception. The former is clear enough: A daytime celebration is one held before 6 P.M., while an evening wedding is held after 6 (or begins a bit before and continues well into the night). The question of formality is less straightforward; it is not a single detail that gives a wedding its style, but all of the elements combined. An evening event in an ornate, grand ballroom with a seated multicourse dinner and an orchestra calls for equally impressive traditional attire, whereas for an afternoon wedding outdoors with pots of wildflowers, food fresh off the grill, and a lively bluegrass band, a smart suit for him and a white piqué sundress for her would be charming.
For the Bride
Most bridal gowns could correctly be called formal, but the shape, style, fabric, trimmings, and accessories make some more so, others less so. The distinction between day and evening attire is usually subtle and subjective: Jeweled accents, for example, often lend an evening feel, but just a sprinkling of sparkle may be fine for daytime. In addition to the level of formality, a bride must consider the location of the wedding: Daisy appliqués will look out of place in an urban hotel, but right at home in a garden. A bride's hair and makeup also influence the overall effect.
For any formal wedding , a ball gown of silk, satin, tulle, or lace with a cathedral-length train or veil is a romantic choice. A ball gown with a chapel or sweep train and complementary veil is also appropriate for a somewhat less formal event, as are other silhouettes, such as the A-line, empire, and sheath. Elaborate detailing such as beadwork or embroidery can make a gown more formal. Gloves may be worn for formal or semiformal weddings; velvet and fur should be reserved for winter months.
For semiformal to informal events , simply styled dresses in traditional silhouettes worn with short veils or none at all are appropriate. Modern designs, such as halter and slip dresses, and dresses in colors that are far from white usually fall into the same category (though they are occasionally more formal). For an informal wedding, a bride might choose a long dress in a fabric such as piqué, Swiss dot, or jersey, or she may wear a chic suit or short dress.
For the Groom
Guidelines for men's formalwear remain somewhat strict today, though the groom can customize even the most traditional attire.
At a formal evening wedding , white tie was once the only proper choice; this dashing ensemble, which includes a black tailcoat and trousers worn with a white shirt, waistcoat, and bow tie, is still wonderfully elegant. But a century ago, gentlemen embraced a more casual alternative: the tuxedo, with its black dinner jacket, trousers, bow tie, and white shirt. Technically referred to as semiformal, the tuxedo, also known as "black tie," has come to be known as the appropriate choice for formal evening weddings. A white dinner jacket can be worn in place of a black one for a wedding in the summer or in a hot climate.
The daytime formal wedding calls for a morning suit, which includes a gray or black cutaway jacket, gray waistcoat, white shirt, gray-and-black striped trousers, and a striped four-in-hand tie or ascot. A similar ensemble is worn for a semiformal daytime wedding, except that a black or gray short jacket, called a stroller, is worn instead of the cutaway.
For an informal wedding , the groom may wear a suit; black and dark colors are more appropriate for evening (and winter) events. Classic ensembles such as a navy blazer and gray flannel or white linen trousers are also popular and stylish.
In the final analysis, the decision regarding attire is yours. Do not feel bound to follow the rules set down by others. It is, after all, your wedding day.
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